I'm not trying to be mean, or paranoid or anything. But I just want to voice out something that had been killing me to say it out.
I know that not ALL ideas ( like, for example I used the slideshow thing as a new way to give the birthday banners for anyone's birthday ) is not originally from me or whatsoever. However, if you have never thought of that idea and got some ideas FROM ME, like you saw the slideshow thing or putting all birthday messages into one birthday banner. Please please please, let me know first or at least ask me like ShadowYin.
I don't care if you began to think anything negative about me because of this, but if you had been using my ideas without letting me know, it's making me feel like you ripped off my ideas and then call it your ideas ( unless it's REALLY your ideas ) or something. I don't know how to explain how I felt == wtf.
If you did, the least you could do is credit me.
I'm sorry but I'm just really sick of this happening to me countless of times. Even someone made her own site that's like more than 50% the same as mine ( not now. I purposely changed my site a little cause I'm sick of having another conflict with people ) after working with me for a few days / weeks. Maybe I'm being paranoid, but some sites never used that idea before til some of them came and visit my site. And the next thing I knew, they're using the same thing I did.
Please, I'm really sick and tired of this. I don't want to have any conflict with anyone. I really wish to just stay down quiet, but if I do, it just gets worst and they would probably think that I'm someone you can push around. But if I voice out to them, their visitors would say that I ripped off their ideas instead.
So, please. I'm being very polite to not mention your names and your site's names already. I just want a small favor from you guys. Please let me know if you're going to use my ideas, or at least credit me when you do.
Thanks.